It's all about the DRAMA

Do you know someone who thrives off of DRAMA? Someone who thinks the world revolves around them and no one else? Someone who when they enter a room causes instant expectation of stress to come, from those who know them? I am reading a book by Jan Silvious called Same Life New Story (that I will blog about as soon as I finish), and one of the chapters deals with DRAMA. This is not unexpected things that happen in your life where you do have temporary drama, but constant, ongoing, daily thriving off of DRAMA. I am around one of those types of people on an almost daily basis. If I know this person is not going to be around me for a while, I experience such relief. When I know they will be around, I tense up. In fact, I have found myself starting to respond in kind with this person. At times I allow this person to cause me to lose my temper with them. I have probably become an enabler to this person. One of the things Mrs. Silvious stresses in her book is that you let this person go. You let them know that you are not going to be stressed by them, or participate in their drama anymore. Sometimes that's kind of hard to do! Maybe I should check out and cut out the drama in my own life...

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Artesian Wells, Creeks and Downtown Prattville, Alabama

When you put these two photos together, what do you think you get? You got it, a rope swing waiting for some daring young (or old) soul to swing out over the creek and create a big splash! This is Autauga Creek, which cuts through the heart of downtown Prattville. In fact this very section of the creek, along with it's rope swing, is about a minute from downtown, and is located beside one of Prattville's many artesian wells, which is actually what I had gone to see. I had heard about the wells, where people take their water bottles (I'm talking the BIG kind) and fill them up on a regular basis. But I had never actually been there. And to think it is absolutely FREE?!? I had to see for myself... Sure enough, when I pulled into the lot at the Doster Road Artesian Well House I was not alone. A car was ahead of me and the man was filling his large, blue water bottle, the kind you normally see dispensing water at your office. While I was waiting I tr

$25.00 Gift Certificate Giveaway -- Change can be a good thing!

Here's a departure from my usual post. Have you thought about changing up your home decor? Let's take the dining room, for instance. What is your preference? Is it modern dining room furniture ? Do you like the country style? How about minimalist? Or are you like me and is it traditional? Actually, I would say I am a throw back to the lines of the 1950s and 1960s. I love the burnished nickel or brass, the clean lines, etc., you find on furniture common to that era. My dining room, however, has a touch of everything. I inherited my grandparents' dining table and chairs, which is absolutely beautiful. I also inherited their corner china cabinet which was made by my dad for my grandparents' 25th wedding anniversary . I also have a framed mirror in shades of silver. Everything looks good and goes well with my hardwood floors. Maybe I should just update the curtains or the linens. I think I'll head over to CSN Stores (which has over 200 online stores and

The Wilderness Park, Prattville, Alabama: Taking a Break in the Park

Yesterday morning I decided to grab my camera, ditch the outdoor chores, and head to the Wilderness Park here in Prattville, Alabama. I'm so glad I did! Although I wore flip flops, which was a poor choice for a roughly 1/2 mile hike, it was not that bad because I was constantly pausing to take pictures. It was nice to get away from the routine for a while. As I was pulling into the parking lot, an older gentleman and his dog were getting in their car to leave. As I wandered the path, I came upon a young couple relaxing on one of the many park benches, kicked back and chatting. And as you'll see in one of the later pictures, young lovers have left their mark, too. As you follow the path, the patch slopes down, leading you deeper into the park. Shortly you come to a "Y", and if you take a right, you will go over the dam. Above is a photo of the path going over the dam, with bamboo draping across, forming a canopy. Looking off to the right side of t

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